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Bente’s Story: A Life Shaped by Film, Fate, and History #FoodForThought

Bente Milton is a Danish renowned filmmaker, who have told incredible stories through her work in film, specifically in the form of documentary work. Bente’s journey begins in the small Danish town of Gilleleje, where she spent every summer of her childhood in her grandmother’s cottage. Though she was originally from Kastrup, it was in Gilleleje that her love for storytelling took root. Her grandmother, an avid photographer, would capture countless images of the children playing, unwittingly introducing Bente to the magic of film. As a five-year-old, she was captivated by the way moments could be preserved and retold, and this fascination would stay with her throughout her life. During her adolescence, Milton realised a fascination with nature and would use her grandmother’s film camera to photograph butterflies. This deep appreciation for nature’s visual poetry sparked an early desire to become a filmmaker. She believed that film had the power to change perspectives, to tell the untold stories of people and places often overlooked. This idea would later evolve into her personal theory of change: storytelling as a tool for awareness and transformation. A Change of Plans After high school, Bente had plans to study in San Francisco, but life had a different script for her. An unplanned pregnancy forced her to rethink her path—a twist of fate she would later call her “happy mistake.” Instead of heading overseas, she embraced a different role, becoming a suburban housewife and later pursuing a teaching degree. While her dreams of filmmaking took a backseat, her passion for storytelling remained undiminished. It would resurface years later in an unexpected way—through theater. A Forgotten Chapter of Danish History During her time as a teacher, Bente found herself drawn to a lesser-known but remarkable chapter of Danish history: the rescue of Danish Jews during World War II. In October 1943, a secret agreement between Danish resistance groups and certain political factions ensured the protection of Danish Jews from Nazi persecution. However, on the night of October 6th, the urgency intensified, and Jews fled to Gilleleje, hoping to escape to Sweden via fishing boats. Compelled by this history, Bente decided to bring the story to life for her students. She adapted the events into a theater piece, immersing her class in a moment of history that had once unfolded in the very town where she had spent her childhood summers. The play was a powerful tribute to the bravery and humanity of those involved. An Unexpected Connection Inspired by her success, Bente proposed the play to a renowned stage director at the Royal Danish Theatre. What she hadn’t anticipated was how this decision would unlock a long-buried story. On that fateful night, as the Jews were escaping to Sweden, with the help of the young man. As the Nazis were closing in, the young man had been spotted but managed to disappear without a trace. For decades, no one knew what had become of him. One of the play’s central characters was based on a young man who had helped Jewish refugees escape that night in Gilleleje. This changed when a Norwegian man, having read of Bente’s performances in the local newspaper, recognized the story. He reached out to her, revealing that he had firsthand knowledge of what had happened to the mysterious young man. The man managed to make his way outside where he was able to hide behind a tombstone. Covered in leaves camouflaging with the dirt, the young man now laid there for the rest of the night waiting for the soldiers to leave. As the sun rose and the coast was clear, the man finally stood up from his hiding place. As he walked around the tombstone he was astonished by a revelation; The tombstone bore the Star of David. The Power of Storytelling Bente’s story is one of resilience, passion, and the unexpected ways life’s threads intertwine. From her childhood summers in Gilleleje to the classroom and theater stage, she never stopped believing in the power of storytelling. Whether through film, teaching, or theater, she found a way to illuminate forgotten moments, ensuring that history—both personal and collective—was never lost to time.

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YES – Youth Engagement and Sustainability

Written by: Ella Hvass, Julia Kristensen and Gry Ida Voss. Hello everyone, we are 18 students and three teachers from Fredensborg Municipality, all in 9th grade, who in November 2024 went on a study trip to Ghana. We had an incredibly exciting and unique experience. We went as SDG (Sustainable Development Goals) ambassadors to focus on goals 4 (quality education) , 7 (affordable and clean energy) , and 12 (responsible consumption and production). Throughout our trip, we encountered many new and fascinating things, such as Boti Falls, the Ada radio station, and Naana Baadu School, which was the primary purpose of our visit. At the school, everyone was very welcoming, and the children were incredibly sweet and excited to see us. We didn’t just experience new things; we also learned a lot. One of the main lessons we took away was their immense sense of gratitude. Everyone we met had a big smile on their face and was eager to help. You could really sense how grateful they were that we took the time to visit their country, experience their way of life, and immerse ourselves in their culture. These experiences also taught us the importance of patience in many African countries. Time in Ghana works very differently. For example, when we had to take the ferry, it didn’t leave until it was completely full. We also encountered traffic jams that lasted more than two hours. These experiences have shown us that there are far more important things in life than complaining about a 20-minute traffic delay in Denmark. Many of the things we encountered were different from what we had expected. Before we left, we had certain assumptions, especially about the people. We thought we would stand out a lot, but instead, they included us in everything and were incredibly welcoming. To conclude, we would like to recommend a trip like ours. It is both highly educational and unique, so go ahead and take the trip with other young people. Thank you for reading! The trip to Ghana is part of Crossing Borders’ project “Yes – Youth Engagement and Sustainability” supported by Globus Puljen.  

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ALF Heads of Network Meeting, 2025

Representing ALF Danish Network at the Anna Lindh Foundation HoNs Meeting in Alexandria  From December 11-13, I had the privilege of attending the Anna Lindh Foundation (ALF) Heads of Network (HoNs) meeting in Alexandria, Egypt, as the representative of the ALF Danish network. It was an inspiring and productive gathering, bringing together partners from over 40 countries to discuss the future of intercultural dialogue and collaboration across the Euro-Mediterranean region.  One of the central topics of discussion was the highly anticipated ALF Forum 2025, set to take place in June in Tirana, Albania. This major event will serve as a platform for fostering exchange, strengthening partnerships, and advancing key initiatives within the ALF network.  I am excited to share that Crossing Borders will play a significant role in the forum through an insightful session “Words Across Borders: A Space for Connection and Reflection”, using art and the written word to encourage dialogue and collaboration.  Throughout the meeting in Alexandria, we explored various strategies, formats, and approaches to ensure the session’s success and impact.  It was truly a pleasure reconnecting with partners from diverse cultural and professional backgrounds, all committed to fostering mutual understanding and cooperation. The energy and dedication within the ALF network continue to inspire, and I look forward to contributing further to this important mission.  Stay tuned for more updates on the Crossing Borders session at ALF Forum 2025—exciting discussions and collaborations are on the horizon!  -Written by Maryam Alaouie

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CISU Celebrates 30 Years of Impact in 2025

In 2025, CISU (Civilsamfund i Udvikling) will celebrate its 30th anniversary, marking three decades of significant contributions as a driving force for change through strong civil society organizations.  The anniversary celebrates past achievements, embraces future challenges, and underscores CISU’s commitment to strengthening civil society and fostering collaboration. Throughout 2025, member organizations and partners are invited to take part in the celebration. Activities include a special anniversary photo contest, where participants can showcase their work in a dedicated category, and the chance to contribute by sharing video greetings or stories of change that have defined the past three decades. A podcast series will explore CISU’s history, impact, and future direction, while a series of anniversary events will bring together stakeholders to honor and explore civil society’s vital contributions. Further details about these initiatives and how to participate can be found on the anniversary page.

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Heads of Networks Meeting in Alexandria: Shaping the Future of ALF Initiatives

The Heads of Networks Meeting of the Anna Lindh Foundation (ALF) was held at the organization’s headquarters in Alexandria, Egypt, bringing together 30 heads of civil society networks and representatives from across the Euro-Mediterranean region. Among the participants was Maryam Alaouie, representing the Anna Lindh Foundation Danish Network on behalf of Crossing Borders. The two-day event provided a valuable platform for reflection and planning, as participants reviewed the achievements of the current program phase and explored opportunities under the forthcoming Action Grant 7. Engaging workshops, open discussions, and vibrant idea exchanges also shaped the agenda, with a special focus on preparations for the upcoming ALF Forum.

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Food for Thought: Kicking Off 2025 with Stories and Community

On Thursday, 23 January 2025, Crossing Borders invites you to the first Food for Thought event of the year—an evening dedicated to storytelling, dialogue, and shared connections. Held at Ciello, Union, Nørre Allé 7, this event promises an inspiring blend of impactful narratives and delicious community dining. The evening will feature Trine Pertou Mach, a respected Danish politician and advocate for human rights, equality, and international relations. A member of the Folketinget for Enhedslisten – De Rød-Grønne, Trine brings a wealth of experience from her work with the European government, WWF, and the Danish Institute for Human Rights. Her storytelling session will explore her journey, her values, and her vision for a more equitable world. Following the storytelling, attendees will enjoy a vegetarian dinner prepared by Send Flere Krydderier, known for their ability to bring communities together through flavorful, culturally rich dishes.We will begin at 17:00 and conclude at 20:00. Book your Ticket

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Facilitator’s Manual from Expanding Club-Europe Project

Are you an educator looking to inspire and engage your students with critical global and local issues? Our Facilitator’s Manual guides you in creating meaningful and interactive sessions for young minds. This manual, funded by Europa-Nævnet and developed by Crossing Borders, equips facilitators with the tools and techniques to:– Deepen students’ understanding of the European Union.– Encourage thoughtful discussions about inclusion, cultural diversity, and political stability.– Foster debate, critical thinking, and public speaking skills. Originally designed for 16-17-year-olds, the manual can easily be adapted for various age groups, ensuring that every learner gets a personalized and enriching experience. Download the manual today and start creating workshops that empower your students to be active, informed, and engaged members of their community. Download Now About the Project: Expanding Club-Europe The project aimed to enhance the knowledge and engagement of boarding school students about the European community through webinars, interactive workshops, and a major debate event. Using the 2024 European Parliament election as a starting point, the project invited young people to reflect on and share their views on themes such as inclusion, cultural diversity, security, and political stability through group work, role-playing, and dialogue-based methods. The project largely used a peer-to-peer approach, where young people were inspired by and debated with other young people, both from Denmark and abroad. As part of the project, three workshops were conducted at two boarding schools, Karise and Ryslinge. Additionally, two webinars were held with Mogens Lykketoft and Lisbeth Pilegaard, during which students and teachers were inspired and engaged by the speakers’ stories and experiences. Funded with a grant from Europa-Nævnet. Responsibility for the content lies solely with the grant recipient.

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Unity in Diversity: The Transformative Power of Dialogue

On Thursday, November 28th, Crossing Borders, the Danish network head of the Anna Lindh Foundation, hosted a panel event titled “Bridging Cultures: Intercultural Dialogue Panel & Anna Lindh Foundation Danish Network Gathering.” Led by Garba Diallo, founder and director of Crossing Borders, the event featured four distinguished panellists discussing the transformative power of dialogue in shaping attitudes and driving social change. The panel included Anna Maria Blicher Skanborg, Project Manager at CKI (Danish Centre for Arts and Interculture); Sarah Arnd Linder, Founder of PiP (Political is Personal); Agob Yacoub, Director of Syrian Doc Days and Finjan; and Morten Kjaerum, Former Director of the Danish Institute for Human Rights. In a room filled with diverse voices, the air hums with stories of resilience, connection and the struggle to find understanding. These are not just anecdotes—they are lifelines in a world increasingly fractured by fear and division. Dialogue, the simple yet profound act of listening and speaking, lies at the heart of these efforts. As Anna put it, “If we don’t have dialogue, we have nothing.” This truth resonates across borders and identities, echoing the lived experiences of Syrians, Danes, Palestinians and Israelis, all gathered to explore the power of connection. In this blog, we delve into their stories—stories that reveal how dialogue can heal, transform and ultimately bridge even the widest divides. The Fragile Thread of Connection Dialogue often feels precarious, especially in times of crisis. Yet, as speaker after speaker emphasised, it is an essential lifeline. “I’ve worked in human rights for over 40 years,” Morten shared, “and dialogue has always been the most powerful tool in my toolbox.” The panellists acknowledged the growing challenges to open communication, but their collective faith in dialogue as a vehicle for change remains unshaken. Agob, who came to Denmark from Syria over a decade ago, reflected on how dialogue became a cornerstone of his integration into Danish society. “When I first arrived, I didn’t speak Danish. I didn’t understand the politics, the culture or the system,” he said. “But once I learned the language, I realised I had a mission—to share the knowledge I had gained and to create connections.” Language, he noted, was not just a tool for understanding but also a means of challenging prejudices and finding common ground. Art as a Universal Language In a world often divided by words, art has emerged as a powerful alternative—a universal language that transcends cultural and linguistic barriers. Agob, who organises Syrian documentary film festivals in Denmark, shared how art can illuminate stories that are otherwise lost in the noise of political discourse. “Through film, we show what’s happening on the ground in Syria. It’s not just about the war—it’s about the people, their resilience, their humanity.” Anna highlighted the transformative power of theatre, particularly in intercultural contexts. She spoke about a project that brought together actors from numerous countries to perform Shakespeare in Denmark. “It was challenging. Some funders said it wasn’t ‘Danish enough,’ but the performance shattered those preconceptions. It created a shared space where people could connect beyond their differences.” Physical theatre workshops also played a significant role in fostering connection. “We start with movement and non-verbal communication,” Anna explained. “By the time words are introduced, participants already see each other differently—as humans first, not as categories.” Listening as an Act of Courage Central to dialogue is the courage to listen. “To truly listen,” one panellist observed, “you have to be willing to be changed by what you hear.” This requires setting aside preconceived notions and engaging with openness and humility. This courage is especially evident in contexts of deep conflict. Sarah, who has roots in both Israel and Denmark, shared her journey of building bridges between Israelis and Palestinians. “After 7th October, I felt fear rising in me—a fear of Palestinians I had never experienced before. But I knew I couldn’t let that fear take hold. I sought out Palestinians here in Denmark to talk to them, to see their humanity and share my own.” Sarah’s story underscores a profound truth: meeting those we fear or misunderstand can dissolve even the most entrenched divisions. “Dialogue is underrated,” she continued. “It’s not just a way to resolve conflict—it’s a way to prevent it.” The Role of Safe Spaces For dialogue to thrive, it needs a safe environment. This point was emphasised repeatedly during the discussion. “Creating controlled, safe spaces for dialogue is crucial,” one speaker noted. “It allows people to confront their fears in a setting where they feel secure.” These spaces are especially vital in intercultural and intergenerational dialogues, where power imbalances and historical grievances often complicate conversations. As Agob put it, “I don’t want to be tolerated—I want to be accepted.” His words reflect a universal desire for dignity, one that safe spaces can help nurture. Anna told the audience about how she designs workshops to foster such environments. “In applied theatre, the space becomes a stage where everyone is equal. It’s not about performance—it’s about connection. After two hours, participants feel like they’ve known each other forever.” Challenging Prejudice and Power Throughout the conversation, participants returned to the theme of power—how it shapes dialogue and how it can perpetuate prejudice. “We all have biases,” one panellist admitted. “But the more we categorise people, the easier it becomes to dehumanise them.” Morten, who has worked extensively in human rights, shared a powerful example: “When I was leading an EU agency, we conducted a groundbreaking survey on LGBTQ+ rights. Before releasing the findings, we invited religious leaders to discuss the results. I told them, ‘We don’t have to agree, but we do have to listen.’ What surprised everyone was how small the list of disagreements actually was.” This approach—agreeing to disagree—offers a model for dialogue in polarised contexts. By focusing on shared values rather than divisions, it’s possible to move beyond entrenched positions and find common ground. The Ripple Effect of Dialogue The impact of dialogue extends far beyond the individuals involved. It creates ripples that influence communities,

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Armenia Meeting Point: Monitoring Visit and Capacity Building

From November 22 to 26, 2024, CB Director Garba Diallo conducted a monitoring visit and capacity-building mission to Armenia. The visit centered around the Analytical Centre for Regional and Global Cooperation (ACRGC), our partner in the Armenia Meeting Point project. This initiative aims to build bridges between civil society and independent media, equipping them to address the pressing challenges posed by encroaching anti-democratic forces. A major highlight of the trip was a capacity-building seminar held in Gyumri, a city located near the Armenian-Turkish border. The seminar tackled the crucial theme: “The Needs and Strategies for Civil Society Actors and Independent Media to Join Forces to Expand and Protect Civil Spaces.” Gathering 37 representatives from 12 civic organizations and three independent media outlets across Armenia, the seminar provided a platform for dialogue, experience-sharing, and strategic planning. It was hosted by the renowned democracy advocate, journalist, and art director Dr. Levon Barseghyan, whose dedication to democratic values inspired participants. The discussions culminated in a shared agreement among participants: The best way to safeguard democracy is for civil society and independent media to join forces around common interests. The success of this trip would not have been possible without the efforts and support of Dr. Stepan Grigoryan, Armen Grigoryan, Dr. Levon Barseghyan, and Nona Hovhannisyan. This visit reaffirmed the importance of cross-sector collaboration in safeguarding democratic values. 

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Tell Your Story, You Exist: Celebrating Shared Narratives

Reflections on the storytelling evening Crossing Borders hosted in collaboration with the Silvers on 21 November 2024 in Copenhagen. Titled Tell Your Story, You Exist, the evening utilized two universal social spaces—storytelling and food—as a framework. Storytelling is profoundly powerful and ingrained in our identities as individuals, as well as being an essential part of human culture. One could argue: we are our stories. Without stories, we cannot communicate, interact, or participate in conversations meaningfully. The same applies to food, without which we cannot exist. Hence, unlike René Descartes, who declared, I think, therefore I am, I would instead say, I tell my story, therefore I am. In our information-overloaded society, storytelling has become even more vital. Gathering a diverse group of participants from across the globe—including Argentina, Brazil, Croatia, Denmark, Ecuador, Egypt, Germany, India, Iran, Ireland, Malaysia, Nigeria, Turkey, and more—the event began with participants talking in pairs, then presenting each other as the stars of the night. These presentations focused on the person’s interests, passions, and key moments in their life journeys that shaped who they are. Age, education, occupation, and other technical aspects were omitted. It was challenging to avoid the usual format of, My name is, I am this age, I studied that, and I work as such. Excluding such details prevented those unemployed from feeling worthless or lacking a professional identity. Next, I shared a portion of my own life story. Starting with life in the tiny village where I grew up with my parents, seven siblings, and other extended family members. As Fulani cowboys, our lives revolved around cows. About 99% of the people were illiterate and resisted sending their children to the French colonial school, where children often lost more than they gained. The school was like a torture camp—local languages were banned, children were brainwashed to reject their culture, and worst of all, their stories. The colonists claimed there was no history before their arrival, undermining self-worth and confidence. Many children left school knowing little more than how to say, I don’t know, I don’t dare, and I can’t. In defiance of colonial propaganda, the locals preserved their culture through storytelling and hands-on learning. Many stories were shared at night in open-air circles around a fire. I then narrated one such story from Africa, specifically from Ethiopia. It tells how a woman tamed her husband. A long time ago, there was a young, irresistibly beautiful woman. Many young men competed for her hand in marriage. She declared that she would marry the man who told the most beautiful story. Each suitor was tasked with composing and telling his story at a set time and place. The public would listen and choose the best storyteller. She would marry the winner. The men worked tirelessly to create their stories. When the time came, the woman chose the man with the most exciting story, which happened to be about how a woman tamed her husband. She married him, and they lived happily together for several years. However, as the locals say, love is like a garden—it needs constant care and watering, or it will wither. This is exactly what happened. Over time, her husband became distracted, lost interest in her, and stopped noticing whether she was happy, sad, or unwell. Feeling miserable, the woman sought help from the village medicine man. She explained her troubles, and he listened empathetically. He told her, “I can help you, but you must bring me three hairs from the mane of a living lion.” The woman thought this task sounded simple but soon realized its difficulty. She remembered that a fierce lion roamed near her village every night, snatching small animals like lambs. Using her beautiful singing voice—a talent that had once captivated men—she approached the lion’s path one night, carrying a lamb. She sang softly, leaving the lamb for the lion. This continued for several nights until the lion began to recognize her voice. Over time, the lion became calm and even approached her with its ears lowered and tail wagging. One night, the lion laid its head on her lap, and she gently stroked its mane, plucking three hairs. As soon as the lion fell asleep, she quietly left. Triumphantly, she delivered the hairs to the medicine man, who smiled and said, “Now you have solved the problem.” As is common with African stories, this one ends with a question: What did the medicine man mean when he said, Now you have solved the problem? The participants guessed the answer. The evening then transitioned to dinner and wine, with reflections on the story before playing a card game. Each participant drew a card with prompts such as, Tell a story when you were in danger, received a nice gift, felt embarrassed, broke the law, and so on. Each story sparked another, creating a cascade of narratives. Thank you for the storytelling night, which hopefully reminded us of the necessity for everyone to have the right and space to share their stories—to fully be. -Garba Diallo, Director of Crossing Borders

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